When it comes to sex, just like any other relationship or connection, compatibility is important. But what does sexual compatibility mean? Does having common sex goals and kinks really make a difference? Are there certain things that make you more compatible? Well let's dig into some of what goes into sexual compatibility.
One of the most important aspects of sexual compatibility is having similar mindsets when it comes to sex. While it is possible to have good sex with someone who has a different mindset than you, it can be challenging. For example, when someone is more reluctant to fully explore things sexually, sex becomes boring really fast when the other partner is adventurous and spontaneous. That said, it is important to discuss your your views on sex with each other and make sure that they are in line. For example, if one partner is most fulfilled with vanilla sex while the other wants to experiment with different forms of BDSM, it may be difficult to find a middle ground.
Having common sexual interests is also beneficial when it comes to sexual compatibility. While you don't need to share every single kink and fetish, it's helpful to have some things in common. This can create a shared bond and make it easier for you to connect with each other. It also helps when it comes down to open and honest communication around your sexual desires because your partner can understand yours needs to an extent.
Overall, sexual compatibility is an important factor when it comes to having amazing sex. It is important to have similar mindsets when it comes to sex... don't force an orgy on someone who doesn't believe in inviting people into your bedroom for some added fun and playtime. By understanding what determines sexual compatibility, you can create the recipe for amazing sexual experiences.
Listen to Ep. 16 of PrHOEvocative "Sexual Compatibility" to learn more about Jody's experiences, and how determines whether she's sexually compatible with someone.
You can also grab your copy of the PrHOEvocative Sex Goal Setting planner/journal on Amazon.